I am a girl who grew up without father and i am a woman who grow up my children without their father too. My mum struggle to my education and i know i have to become a lady to overcome the laugh of the community. She was about marrying me with an engineer at the age of 18 but i refused and asked her a question that she never replied:"Would you want a gender that is an engineer or a daugther that is an engineer? Then i continued studies then i became IT Engineer. I always work at higher position but being a woman is not easy to accept in my place, until now i have to prove that i deserve to be at my position. Well, recently, i have just been fired by my employer because i do not practice corruption. Now we call me Unmanageable Woman. But i am proud of me and my accomplishment though, aince the community i work for benefits from my competences, and that is my will.